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Monday, July 25, 2005

The joy of domestic life :)

"That's youth for you; it sets its own limits without asking if the body can take it. Yet the body always does." - Paolo Coelho (Veronika Decides to Die)

Having read yet another quotable quote from Sir Paolo, I stopped to have a little meeting with my body about the weekend. The conclusion: it was to be about living the domesticated lifestyle. Foregoing crazy party invites and social gatherings to just staying home and enjoying the sheer bliss that watching TV and binging on junk food can bring. That was my weekend. A weekend I have longed to have for quite a while now but never got to because my adorable friends always had their way to get me out (umm.. I won't mention names but Grace, are you there??! Haha!). I alway have a good time hanging out and doing crazy things (umm.. climbing Lion's Peak was whose idea again?! Peace, Kian!) but every now and then, a little me-time is a weekend just as wonderful as those spent with crazy friends doing crazy things.

BUT a little me-time is not good in consecutive doses: can drive a girl, living alone, out of her mind-- so next weekend, I'm going out! :)

Monday, July 18, 2005

A bit of culture, sun & sand

The past weekend is one of the most laid-back and surprisingly, interestingly boring (as compared to leaving the country or partying til the wee hours of the morning at LKF) weekend I've had in some time. I'm not sure if it's just me getting old (at 23!) or I'm just not really built for the party scene (read: blaring music, drunk people dancing and smoke everywhere)but I feel a sense of peace and pride when I'm able to go through a weekend without staying out past 12 and doing weekend things that people my age are expected to enjoy: a bit of booze-drinking and booty-shaking. I don't enjoy going out but I go out occasionally because I enjoy the company. But it's even more fun when I can have the company doing something I really enjoy. And that was what this weekend gave me.

Friday night was dinner with the North Point gals (this should be a regular Friday thing eh?) at Pattaya Thai Restaurant. The Pad Thai wasn't impressive but a bit of girl talk spiced things up a notch. Then we headed to Causeway Bay and had some dessert at Starbucks (we froze in the process as well, Lindsay was getting goose bumps from the aircon and she's from England so imagine us southeast Asians..) We were home just before midnight. It was a good night of ok food, good (girl)talks and good friends.

Saturday was a good day for me. I cleaned the apartment, changed sheets gets me revved up for sleep!) and brought my laundry to the cleaners (I HAD to! It was taking over the whole place!) I had a very bad lunch of Big Mac, large fries and Oreo McFlurry in front of the TV and took a short nap in the afternoon. My dad called, as usual, right on time and woke me up for a bit of chat. Then it was time to get ready for the night: we were going to see a ballet! I've been looking forward to it for sometime. The Hong Kong Ballet staged the Hans Andersen classic "The Emperor and the Nightingale" as part of the Arts Carnival this month and I convinced Lindsay, Happy, Steph, Stefan & Nikos (it's the guys' first time to go see a ballet!!) to go see it. The guys didn't fall asleep so it was good and very "cultured." We then had Mexican food at Soho and was back home a little before 1 am.

Sunday, now, this was THE life. Hehe. I joined the beach trip to Big Wave Bay with the group (the same ones I was with in last week's "trail") and I've been looking forward to a bit of sun and sand, too. I love the beach (I guess, most people do) and I delight in the feel of my toes digging into the sand with the sun shining on my face, lying there with a good book-- it makes a good Sunday. And the weather was perfect! It was a bit too hot for some (at 33 degrees) but it was just good for me. The water was murky to put it lightly and it wasn't good at all but the waves were big and fun so that made up for it. We were squealing with delight as the waves came and went, leaving us holding on to our dear bikinis (lest it's gone with the wave!Haha!). It was a lot of fun!

A weekend like this makes the 5-day wait well worth it. :)

Monday, July 11, 2005

My weekend "high"

I was barely home this weekend. My first weekend in HK after my Taipei trip and for those who know me (or who have traveled with me), that's saying a lot about my current state. You see, I have a bed time and I'm pretty strict on it as going past it has very serious consequences. And when I'm on holidays (how very English eh, Josin?), I tell myself that bedtimes, or any form of proper rest for that matter, are not allowed. When you paid quite some to fly somewhere, you are there to see places, experience cultures and eat weird food-- not to sleep until noon after a big night out. Thus, after every single holiday, I need at least a weekend (or 2, depending on the how strenuous the trip was-- for all that biking in China, I needed around a month! That was bad!) to recover. But the past weekend was anything but quiet rest.

Friday night after work was dinner with some friends then off to a night of 1 drink that got me home just a little before 5 am. I was a wreck who woke up at 2 pm on a Saturday. After some conference calls with Grace and the guys, we agreed to meet for some dim sum (at 4 pm! We were deluded!). But of course, dim sum time is over so we had a good lunch (at around 5 pm, we were all together in Kwai Fong the previous night so all those present started our days after noon) instead. Then we wanted to do something "laid back" so we hopped on the tram to Victoria Park and walked around a bit.


After which we went to play a game of bowling (that, by the way, is the most complicated process I have ever gone through just to throw a heavy ball and topple pins-- maybe Grace will tell the story in her blog, I feel exhausted just thinking about it!). We had a good Vietnamese dinner & called it a night around 11 pm (2 consecutive nights in a row of "bedtime" violation).


Now, on to the highest point (literally and figuratively -with a tang of sarcasm- *peace Kian!*) of my weekend. Kian organized/planned this trailing (it was more climbing than trailing, really) activity up 495 meters to see the amazing view from the Lion's Rock somewhere in the New Territories. He was assuring everyone that it's an easy trail. I read in the Lonely Planet that there are easy parts and hard parts but Master Kian said we'll only do the easy parts and we believed him like blind ducks. Hehe. So off we went. We started around 1:30 pm for what we expected to be an hour to 2 hours of easy walking. Okay, easy was far from it. We were climbing the steep mountain holding on to barks and ropes for dear life (well, that last bit was an exaggeration but really, it WAS NOT EASY!). We were all sweating like pigs under the scorching heat of the sun which couldn't have been said better when Yurgo the Greek said, "we chose the perfect time for hiking." Haha! We stopped a couple of times for rest as some of us felt like one more step is just asking a little too much from our already exhausted legs. There were a couple of spots that were so temptingly comfortable (sitting on a rock under the shade of a tree with the cool breeze on your face) but we had to go on. As Marcos (another Greek, they have this penchant for quotable quotes) put it, "we are not the meek ones to stop mid-way"--or something to that tune, I was too tired to remember his exact words. Haha! After a little more leg-abuse, we got there. We made it!

495 meters up is definitely a better view of Hong Kong. If going up is too much work (it is, believe me and save your legs!), I took some photos from up there. Beautiful eh? It should be, I woke up with the most sore legs in the world this morning and I guess, for the rest of the week.

P.S. Kudos to Kian for a unique weekend experience! Next weekend, let's do something "laid back" alright? Haha! :)

Thursday, July 07, 2005

Ceha Sayang

I dedicate this post to Ceha. I know, I know.. Meicy beat me to this tribute but I'd also like Ceha to know in a rather "un"-sentimental (mush is for "honeymooners"-- we are the classic "old couple".. right, Ce?) way how much I appreciate her-- quirks and all. :)

We go quite a way back, Ceha & I. We met in Jakarta which was home to me for a year and a half, of course through AIESEC (takes credit for most of my treasured friendships). But even under different circumstances, I think Ceha and I are really bound to be friends. She has that right mix of bluntness and sensitivity that suits my personality. The type who won't take shit from people but also won't shit on people. So much like my perspective of "live & let live." It's quite a twist of fate when she got in Kraft in HK and a few months' after, I followed suit. The time we were together in HK is really where our "story" began.

3 Things about Ceha & I:

1. Comfort in silence
I have this level of comfort with Ceha where we can sit in a coffee shop (the time in West St. in Yangshuo, China) in silence for hours and somehow, there isn't a need to make conversation for the heck of it. We were even joking that we are like an old married couple in the sense that silence is not uncomfortable anymore and to some degree, even seems like the most comfortable (and natural) thing in the world. And I think this is a privilege of something real between 2 people who call each other "friends."

2. Sensitive bluntness
Ceha is, by Asian standards, blunt. She speaks her mind and is open about how she feels-- positive and negative. But what sets her apart and endears us to each other is what we termed "sensitive bluntness". I don't really know how to put this in words with which people would get the precise idea of how it works. It's more saying how you feel while taking the extra mile not to hurt the recipient/not making a fuss but getting your feelings across in a "cool" manner/not pretending to be okay when you're not for another person's satisfaction... you get the drift. Hehe.

3. "Calculated risks" and "wise" investments
Let's just say that both, in career and personal life, Ceha & I share a common guideline. Our priorities, views, aspirations, desperations (I got to say this..hehe!) and penchant for "romances in Europe" monitoring is something I will surely miss-- since we have bashing sessions quite often. We share a common "goal" and we can be honest to each other about it but not to everyone else, lest we'd be "judged" (Ce, you have to agree with me on this.. Haha!)

These 3 core foundations of our friendship are more than enough to "burden" her an obliged attendance in the most important moments of my life (remember the proposal on the way to Balalaika, dear).

I'll miss you a lot, Ce. But I take comfort in the thought that with what we have, it's safe enough to say, "there will never be goodbye."

Sampai ketamu lagi, monyet sayang. *Wink*

Wednesday, July 06, 2005

Weekend in Taipei

It was long weekend in HK this past week because of the anniversary of the British Handover of HK to China and as with most foreigners living in HK, it's a good excuse to get out of the country. So I found myself (along with Stephanie who works in China so didn't have any holidays but took some days off to travel with me, I am flattered) on the first flight, literally as our flight with China Airlines is at 12.15 am (midnight!), to Taipei.

Our friends in Taipei advised us that arriving at 2:50 am in Chang Kai Shek international airport will leave us with no choice but take the cab into the city that needless to say costs an arm and a leg (which is roughly 1600 New Taiwan dollar = 400 HKD) so that wasn't an option (Haha!). We were determined to wait for the first bus at around 5 am but a very nice Thai flight attendant with China Airlines informed us that we weren't completely doomed to sleep in the airport (yet again?! Some people wait and get upgraded to business class, I have had no such luck.. I just wait and well, board the late plane) because one bus company operates 24 hours to Taipei City Main Station where we can take a cab (this, we can afford) to our friend's apartment.

First Impressions: Before anything else, I think it's quite unfair to a city for a foreigner to arrive early morning (read: 3 am) when everything seems to be at rest and draw an impression right there. Chang Kai Shek Int'l Airport wasn't quite as impressive as HKIA but I guess, that's my first mistake I compare everything to HK. Well, it wasn't bad either, just empty. Thankfully my dearest Stephanie is a native speaker so we found our way to the bus and on to Taipei City. Oh, that first bus in Taipei is business class-- we were joking about it since the entire bus could probably only seat 20 people because the seats were all couch-like and the leg room is ahhhh.. you frequent (economy) flyers know what I mean. Haha. We pretty much spent the rest of the morning sleeping in Elvina's very spacious apartment. As with everything in Taipei, from streets to apartments, everything is more "normal" than HK.

Day 1: National Palace Museum

Our first day in very sunny Taipei was for "culture". The city looks so much like Jakarta (and Manila) in the daylight except that well, it's cleaner and more organized and the transport system is quite good-- save for the fact that bus routes were in Chinese (Steph was more help than the Lonely Planet =P) and MRT stations are miles apart (as should be but the amazing transport system in HK spoils its inhabitants that we become used to MTR signs every 5 minutes and convince ourselves this should be the norm). We hopped on a bus to see 15,000 (rotated for viewing every 3 months) of the massive collection of 720,000 Chinese historical artifacts on display in this museum thus, making this the center of the study of Chinese Art. As I was looking around, I can't quite imagine how they managed to transport all these priceless & fragile pieces out of China in the time of communism.

The Palace grounds is also home to the Chih Shan Garden (after all, what palace doesn't have a garden) with a little pond where black and white swans swim around. It was quaint and tranquil. A nice place to catch your breath and thoughts away from the scorching heat of the Taipei sun.

As most of you girls in Asia, the Meteor Garden craze would be quite a familiar point in time. My sister is crazy about them and I tell you, she isn't the type so I was quite astounded at what these Taiwanese cuties can do. Anyway, I heard (as I never got to watch the show-- I was in Jakarta then and was too busy being homesick) of a scene where the 2 main characters had a date over ice cream in this funky resto where the tables are in real cars so you basically eat inside the car (I don't know how to fully explain so refer to the photo). We searched high and low for the bus that goes there and believe me, it was no easy feat! When we got there, the place is called PS Bu Bu (yes, I have no idea why?!), it was all worth the trouble. Really cute place and the Oreo (I buy our own products eh?) milkshake was beyond words, with a piece of cheesecake smothered in choco syrup to boot. My day was made. :)

Day 2: Yangming Shan (which translates Mt. Yangming)

This was a day for the outskirts of Taipei City. A bit of greenery to rest our eyes from the skyscrapers of HK. I'd say, after Guilin & Yangshuo (I know, I shouldn't compare but I can't help it!), it's quite a task to impress me in terms of mountainous views. So Yangming Shan was okay, not particularly impressive and I'm sure not representative of the many beautiful places of Taiwan.

But this day was very special. More than the place, it was the time I spent with Steph, laughing about the most obscure things and tragedies (she broke her sandals as soon as we hopped down the bus so she was dragging her feet for most of the mountain!) to finishing each others' thoughts to "un"-bore ourselves in the lengthy bus rides that seem to be headed nowhere. It was a great day with a great friend. A very big hug to you, Steph. You are one of my best travel buddies (along with my sis).

That night we had dinner with some friends from AIESEC Taipei and we girls, along with our hosts, headed for central Taipei to get some drinks and listen to some Chinese street music around Taipei 101 area. We got home beat but happy.

Day 3: Jiu Fang (old town Taipei) & Danshui (town by the harbor) - both may be mispelled but even the Chinese don't know how to Romanize-- all this pinyin is driving travelers crazy!

Steph was quite determined to see a bit of the old Taipei so we headed to yet another day of hopping on buses with very uncertain destinations. Haha! Indeed part of the fun is getting there. We took a long bus ride to Kee Long and took another bus from there to Jiu Fang. When we arrived, the place reminded me so much of Stanley Market back in HK. The long narrow alleys lined with shops but Jiu Fang was unique in the way that half of the shops are street foods in hawker stalls.

I have heard quite a rave on how good street food in Taipei is so we went on a gastronomic adventure. I loved the hallow fish balls with meat fillings and this sweet, flakey cake. I am impressed at the variety from glazed strawberries to egg boiled in tea to chicken claws and God-knows-what on sticks-- not for the faint hearted. Quite a treat, something for everyone indeed.

The old tea houses in Jiu Fang were also very reminiscent of old Chinese movies. The view was good but the heat was unbearable. I was telling Steph that traveling in winter might be a better idea. So the Great Wall is scheduled on winter time-- I've heard stories on how it can go down to -10 degrees but I wouldn't know my temperature preference unless I've tried both right?

Night fell upon the city and we found ourselves in Shilin Night market (pretty much like Mongkok in Kowloon) and it's both a treat for the eyes and the stomach. Yummy street food & nice shoes all in one alley-- quite close to a little heaven. Prices are about similar to stuffs in Mongkok but the quality and designs are better. It's my official favorite shopping place in Taipei City. I got perfectly fitting shorts for 100 NT (roughly $25 -- not bad and quite a few more (was cheap so impulse buying wasn't risky).

Day 4: Taipei 101

Our flight back to HK was after lunch so we couldn't really wander far off the city especially since the way to the international airport is no breezy bus ride (takes almost an hour from Shongshan domestic airport to Chang Kai Shek Int'l) so we decided to just have an easy morning look around the city. Taipei 101 is prided to be Taipei's tallest building and like Petronas is to KL, it has easily become one of the must-sees. Of course, it is nothing but a skyscraper with an array of expensive brand names in the lower floors and big multinationals on the upper floors (over 98 floors if I'm not mistaken)but it's worth a peek. And it looks quite good from afar so it wouldn't hurt to check it out. We wandered around, took photos and was, of course, not willing to pay 350 NT to go up to the observatory deck (been there, done that, not doing it again-- everything looks the same from up there).

Before we knew it (as cliched as it may sound), it was over. We were on board China Airlines (food was good, in fairness, and the plane back had a personal entertainment system per seat, even economy class!) back to HK. It was a good trip, a few lessons here and there and a great time with a great friend (who made thing so much easier by speaking the language perfectly).:)

The most important lesson-- regardless of the spelling (or mis-spelling for that matter) of the street sign against what you see on the map-- if it sounds the same, you're not lost. Haha!